Kissing is so important in an intimate relationship, find out why and how to keep the sparks flying.
I think kissing is the key to keeping a romance alive and well and you should never stop kissing your partner. It's the most important thing to me in an intimate relationship. If the kissing is passionate and sensual then chances are by the time you make it to the bedroom it's going to be steamy hot! I remember practicing the art of kissing to my favorite songs when I was a teenager. I would try and kiss my boyfriend through a whole song. As you know practice is the key to perfecting anything. But what if he's not a great kisser? Should you just give up on him? Chemistry is something that is intangible and it's either there or it's not. So say he's got a lot of great qualities you like and there is chemistry, but he's just not kissing you the way you need him to? I'd say he's worth keeping and YOU may be able to teach him a thing or two that will make him totally yours forever!
I once had a guy that would just stick his tongue in my mouth and not even move it around. He just didn't know what to do? So, I just took myself back to my days in high school and put on a sensual romantic song and told him to follow my lead as I took control and soon he got the hang of it. Now this was an unusual situation and it turned out we really didn't have much chemistry, so the fact that the kissing just wasn't there finalized it for me and he became history pretty fast. However, I'm sure the next girl he kissed benefited a bit more than I did.
Then I met a man that had most of the qualities I yearned for and we had chemistry! However, his kissing skills needed some work because he was an actor and kissing was a big part of his job, but he learned to fake kiss so not to offend his ex-wife and forgot how to really kiss as result! So I had to teach him how to kiss all over again and it felt like we were back in high school. This was a lot of fun to say the least and the end result was that I had a man who really knew how to kiss me the way I liked it, and the chemistry was super hot so by the time we made it to the bedroom he was all mine!
Here are some tips on being a good kisser:
- Make sure you have fresh breath, nothing is worst that kissing someone for the first time with bad breath!
- Be playful and explore his mouth, sensually licking his teeth and moving your tongue around inside and around his.
- Smile and look him in his eyes between kisses, tease him and make him want more.
- Light candles and put on soft romantic music to set the mood.
- Stoke his hair, face, chest and arms while kissing him.