She said yes to a date with you! Holy *!?@ Now what?
This is the moment you’ve been waiting for. You ask out your Dream Girl and she says yes. So you have to be prepared for it. If your reaction to her saying “yes” to your invitation to go out is “Uh, OK, great. Cool. Let’s hang out sometime” – IT WILL NEVER HAPPEN.
You must actually make a date with her that involves a specific plan of action. It’s called a date because it’s a specific date on the calendar. A date is not a vague, distant future occurrence at an unknown time. A date is not at that moment or later that same evening, either. “What are you doing later?” is not Dream Girl-worthy. A woman wants to feel like she’s worth waiting for and you don’t want to come off desperate. Plus, you need time to plan what a Hot Chick will think is A Great Night Out.
Tohave everything you need to be a great first date, read my book SCORE. However, to get you started, keep her interested and avoid having a drink thrown in your face, I’m offering you some First Date Rules.
Be Interested In More Than Her Breasts
Yes. She has great rack and you can’t wait to get your hands on them. However, take it from a woman who hasboth big breasts and brains, we are immediately turned off if we have to say,
“Hey, buddy, my eyes are up here.”
We want to know that you are into us for more than our body and that you are more evolved than a Neanderthal.
No Looking Around At Other Women
It’s the first date, for crying out loud. All your focus should be on the girl you are with. Checking out other Hot Chicks when you’re with one is a big no-no. A wandering eye is a loud and clear alarm that you are a player and/or a cheater so we’ll want nothing to do with you.
Avoid Phone Calls
Men addicted to their iPhones and Crackberries are not hot. We don’t think you’re more of a bigwig because you get a continual stream of “very important” phone calls. We actually think you’re less impressive because you don’t have a full-time, highly trained, dedicated staff to answer your phone and take care of business for you. We hot women don’t want to hear “It’s an emergency. I have to take this” unless it’s life or death. A life-or-death example is the following:
You’re an OB/GYN and your patient is going into labor any minute, and the complications ofthe breeched baby could kill them both if you don’t answer the phone and talk them through it immediately.
If this sort of actual emergency is the case, you must explain to your date beforehand that you may be getting a life-or-death matter phone call and tell her what it is regarding. If it is not literally a life-or-death emergency situation, let it go to voice mail. If you are expecting an important business e-mail or call from someone you’ve been trying to get a hold of all week and they finally call you back in the middle of dinner, let it go to voice mail. If you must, check your PDA messages in the bathroom later. But if you’re gone longer than five minutes, don’t be surprised if your date disappears. Remember, the only thing that is important right now is the woman in front of you. You will never make it to the second date if you don’t pay attention on the first.
Mind Your Manners
I don’t want to sound like your kindergarten teacher, but mind your Ps and Qs and chew with your mouth closed. A great way to turn off a lady is to eat like a beast and belch like an ogre. Also, you may think it old-fashioned, but as a rule it’s “Ladies First.” She walks ahead of you, sits before you, and orders before you. Some guys think modern women don’t care if you open their door, stand when they stand, or say “Bless you” when they sneeze— they’re wrong. Women want you to be chivalrous and charming. Your date is not your buddy to hang out with. She is your special guest and should be treated as such.
These rules apply to every date. Not just the first. Yes, the rules apply to you too.
Do what I say and you will SCORE a second date!
Learn what to do with your Dream Girl once you have her in Kira Reed’s book SCORE!